Given our different personalities, Gregory, you and I were both surprised that we became good friends in 1975 at St. Leonard College — a Franciscan graduate school of theology near Dayton, OH. It began with a heated discussion about Elton John’s two versions of “Burn Down the Mission” on TUMBLEWEED CONNECTION: which was better? — the studio or live version? I became your sous chef for some delightful soirées. We heard Brahms 2nd Piano Concerto at the Cincinnati Symphony Orchestra with a ministry acquaintance of mine who played it as a runner-up in Moscow’s International Tchaikovsky Piano Competition.
As we both left the friars, we drifted apart, but each of us serving with skills we learned at St. Leonard’s. You teaching French (& a whole lot more) to his students. Me as a hospital chaplain & chaplain-educator for 30+ years (with the Jesuits at Loyola University Medical Center).
You came to Fran’s & my wedding in 1997 and gave us a special gift with this inscription on the back:
In the Summer of 1974 I travelled to France with a group of students. As usual, we had a grand time. Upon our return, we planned a little party at which people could show the pictures they had taken in France. Katy Silliman brought her photos like everyone else, but was heartbroken that her photo of Chartres Cathedral came out so blurred. After looking at all her other photos, I told her that it was the photo of Chartres Cathedral that was the best of all. Katy was generous enough to permit me to make a few prints. Very few. You have one of them. I hope that it brings you pleasure.
Love, Gregory.
You have been a great pleasure in my life, Gregory.
And you gave Fran and me great tips for our later honeymoon trip to Paris — and Chartres.
I smile as I remember my last phone conversation with you a couple years ago — after hearing that Brahms Piano Concerto with the Chicago Symphony Orchestra. We again relished the surprising change of tempo in the first movement.
Yes, indeed, you were always a surprising and wonderful change of tempo.
Thank you, Gregory.
I do expect that you’ll be able to play it for me yourself up in heaven.
Jerry Kaelin & Fran Langdon
Chicago